Eat, Read, and Be Mommy

Not many authors can narrate their own audiobooks well, in my opinion–there’s a reason that professional narrators exist. Even fewer authors can narrate their own fiction well; Padma Venkatraman, however, is one of them. I finished listening to her heartbreakingly beautiful The Bridge Home yesterday, and its balance between profound grief and fierce, hopeful love is nigh perfect. Viji’s determination to care for her sister Rukku is well matched with the courage and kindness she finds in Arul and Muthu, and the family they form is every bit as real as the more conventional kind I was born into. And Venkatraman’s deft portrayal of the plight of India’s millions of homeless children is a more eloquent plea for all of us to do what we can, for whom we can, than just about any other I can think of; after all, opportunities to help those with disabilities or those suffering from abuse or extreme poverty are all around us. Do yourself a favor and read this book.

On the home front, it was a crazy week. I chaperoned a field trip to Red Butte Garden on Thursday and the kids and I took my visiting parents to Subway for dinner (conveniently appealing to all concerned and located en route to my son’s flag football practice); Friday morning I spent at the ER with my hubby, getting him scans to try and figure out his abdominal pain, and Friday afternoon saw its usual collection of piano, weekend planning, and the necessities of feeding people; Saturday my parents came for a Mother’s Day lunch-turned-linner; Sunday saw us at our ward’s meetings before heading to Clearfield to hear my nephew speak about his mission; and today I took two kids to therapy, faced Walmart on an empty stomach, and braved my allergies to take my younger girls to piano lessons. (If I didn’t like cats it would be easier to set my boundaries and keep my distance during their lessons, but I’m solidly a cat person.) Life is only going to get busier until school gets out on the 24th, but at least I start getting more sleep afterwards, right?

In the meantime, Padma Venkatraman’s compassionate, musical voice yet lingers in my head, and I’m grateful–both for the good books in this world and the many amazing women in my life.

We’ve been in need of a new mattress for quite a while now, given how much better either my husband or I can sleep in the middle of our current one than on our respective sides. My hubby did some online research–something he excels at–and we’re trying both a new sort of mattress and a new frame that takes the place of regular box springs. Which means, of course, that not only did the old mattress, box springs, and basic metal frame we’ve been using have to move, we also have to clean out what’s been under our bed for (in some cases) well over a decade. Oh, the dust!

On the other hand, we should have more room under the bed than we’ve had before, and I’m an enthusiastic fan of storage.

Anyway. I also have a graphic novel to review–or, rather, a nonvel, given that it’s nonfiction–and my 9- and 14-year-old would never allow me to put off such a thing. (More to the point, they’re fiendishly good at noticing–and endeavoring to pilfer–graphic novels in my possession.) I’ve been looking forward to Hour of Need: The Daring Escape of the Danish Jews During World War II for some time; I’m moved to tears every time I think about what Denmark did to save its Jews from the Nazis, and especially how well it succeeded. (Only 120 Danish Jews died in the Holocaust, while well over 7,000 escaped to Sweden.) Hour of Need follows 9-year-old Mette and her family during their escape, as well as a few other Jewish refugees and a teacher-turned-resistance-leader who went by the name of John for protection. I had actually expected a broader approach based on the title, but the book’s individual approach may well make it more accessible to its intended audience; I’m not necessarily complaining. I will confess, however, that I didn’t love the art–other than hair color and style, the adults looked awfully similar to each other, and the overall aesthetic had a ‘Dick-and-Jane’ feel for me. That may complement the time period, I suppose, but I seriously doubt my kids will be impressed by it. Given the topic, however, I’m still going to have each of them read it, because it’s an important piece of history–and because we need more heroes worthy of the name. (And at 160 pages or fewer, it’s also not much of a time commitment.)

Wish us luck banishing the dust!

Last week was busy, but clearly, it’s a new week and I’m going to finally review a book I finished probably two months ago. (Although only because it’s due and not renewable today.) I’ve been putting off my review of The Blackbird Girls for so long only because I loved it, and it takes more concentration and coherence to review something that’s touched you deeply than it does something that was fun but more up your children’s alley than your own. I’ve had it pinned since before my friend Andrea picked it for book club, but her picking it got me to read it sooner than I would have, and I am solidly grateful for that.

So. Blackbird Girls has three different points of view–Valentina and Oksana in 1986 and Rifka in 1941. Rifka being a Jewish name, it’s not hard to guess that her story focuses on running from and escaping the Nazis; Valentina and Oksana begin the novel in Pripyat, Ukraine–back when Ukraine was part of the Soviet Union–and their fathers’ workplace, the Chernobyl nuclear power plant, experiences a catastrophic accident. Oksana, whose father has always been loudly anti-Semitic, finds herself evacuating with Jewish Valentina and her mother, her own mother’s radiation levels having sent her to the hospital instead. Train tickets are limited, and with no other real options, Valentina’s mother sends the girls along to stay with her own mother, the grandmother Valentina has never met–and so begins the relationship that is the book’s real focus. What is friendship? What about love? What does love look like? Do the people in our lives always tell us the truth? Why not? What do we deserve? Blackbird Girls explores all of these questions and more, and manages to be both dramatic and suspenseful (rather than overtly philosophical) while it’s doing it. Indeed, the book feels eerily real–or not so eerily so, once you realize that the author had a friend who experienced Chernobyl as a child before emigrating to the US and incorporated much of the friend and her family’s experiences into the story. If you like historical fiction at all, you’re going to want to read this one.

Hmmm. I can’t help feeling like that’s a 3.5 star review for a 5 star book, but it seems to be the best I can do. In the meantime, we tried playing pickleball as a family on Saturday and learned that playing on a seriously windy day isn’t advisable. (I also wanted to strangle each of my children in turn, because they were all making the experience difficult to enjoy–each in his or her own way.) We hit a yard sale on the way home and then had a niece pop in on our family scripture time, so it was a busy day. Yesterday we taught the Sunday school lesson and had family dinner in Clearfield, and this morning I set out to tackle the amount of paperwork piled on the counter by my computer. Hallelujah!

The kids didn’t have school on Monday, for starters, and while there was still piano and flag football practice and a school dance thing for my 14-year-old, it was also a day at home that saw me deciding to tackle all the spring/summer bins of girl clothes at once. (Except for what currently fits the teenagers.) I brought up anything at all likely to fit my 9-year-old this year, and I either put away or set aside to give away anything fleecy, one drawer-full of pants, and all of the long-sleeved shirts not specifically arranged into outfits. (Which is, of course, why this week’s projected highs have dropped from 80-ish to 60-ish. You’re welcome.) I also reorganized the still-too-big-for-my-9-year-old clothes into types–there’s now a bin of shorts, a bin of tops, a bin of pjs, and so on. Good times!

Tuesday saw me running around doing mom things until I hadn’t the concentration for a book review, and yesterday kind of did, too. This morning, however–after knitting with my friend from 9-10–I am determined to play a bit of catchup and review Katherine Applegate’s Wishtree, which I finished listening to earlier this week.

It was lovely.

Not that we should be surprised by this, of course, Katherine Applegate being routinely lovely. But Wishtree has the added novelty of being narrated by a tree, and it works even better than you might hope. Red (the tree) is inhabited by multiple animal families, and Applegate’s explanations of how the different species name themselves and their offspring is fabulous; the humans in the surrounding neighborhood, by contrast, may be in the minority as characters go, and yet it’s their actions that inform the book. Trees (and animals) aren’t supposed to talk to humans, you see–but how else can they share wisdom gained in centuries of living? Especially when the world (and the neighborhood) are in need of that exact kind of wisdom once again?

When such a short book makes you both laugh and cry, you’ve generally got a winner, and that’s absolutely the truth here. This almost-fable brings the both funny and the feels; don’t miss it.